Chennai Culture Analysis : Working women or housewife is good?

In today's expensive lifestyle, it is very difficult to live, save and prosper into a wealthy family just by one income. Life demands for both husband and wife to earn, spend and save.

When I was looking for my wife(arranged marriage), I had this debate inside myself for whether I have to choose working woman or a housewife. May be this analysis would help anybody in the same boat.

Let us analyze what are the advantages and disadvantages of a housewife for a family.

Advantages of working women over housewives.
1) More money into the family finance.
2) Busy mind, is productive. Idle mind is devil's workshop
3) Career for both husband and wife is in good shape.
4) If there is an emergency or worst cases, woman member of the family should be able to take over and balance the financial stability in the family.
5) Whole family is productive, in terms of work.

Advantages of housewife over working woman:
1) If one person is working outside and another is taking care of the family. That is the best thing for the family. All the households are taken care.
2) Kids are well taken care. Ask any working woman about their kids - they would feel bad and guilty for not taking care of them to the full extent - whatever age it is.
3) Happy family, with whatever money is available.
4) Relations are maintained.
5) Provided the family lives economically(of whatever income), a happy family.

Disclaimer: Please note these are my personal views and not intended to hurt anyone.

You wanted to know - what I chose?
At last, I was lucky(arranged marriage) to get a mix of both of them. May be that is the best option for anyone. Opinions differ...

Chennai Culture Analysis : Working women or housewife is good?

In today's expensive lifestyle, it is very difficult to live, save and prosper into a wealthy family just by one income. Life demands for both husband and wife to earn, spend and save.

When I was looking for my wife(arranged marriage), I had this debate inside myself for whether I have to choose working woman or a housewife. May be this analysis would help anybody in the same boat.

Let us analyze what are the advantages and disadvantages of a housewife for a family.

Advantages of working women over housewives.
1) More money into the family finance.
2) Busy mind, is productive. Idle mind is devil's workshop
3) Career for both husband and wife is in good shape.
4) If there is an emergency or worst cases, woman member of the family should be able to take over and balance the financial stability in the family.
5) Whole family is productive, in terms of work.

Advantages of housewife over working woman:
1) If one person is working outside and another is taking care of the family. That is the best thing for the family. All the households are taken care.
2) Kids are well taken care. Ask any working woman about their kids - they would feel bad and guilty for not taking care of them to the full extent - whatever age it is.
3) Happy family, with whatever money is available.
4) Relations are maintained.
5) Provided the family lives economically(of whatever income), a happy family.

Disclaimer: Please note these are my personal views and not intended to hurt anyone.

You wanted to know - what I chose?
At last, I was lucky(arranged marriage) to get a mix of both of them. May be that is the best option for anyone. Opinions differ...

Idle mind is devil's workshop - if No work at Chennai

Idle mind is devil's workshop - if No work at Chennai

Chennai is in general a sit-back-relax city. Working population is not even 50% to the non-working stay-at-home population.

Housewives, students, school-drop-out girls, girls stopped from school to stay at home, retired community, not-going-to work population etc., are non-productive. As they are at home and they don't have solid work, there is a tendency of cribbing, idling, gossiping etc.,

There is a huge potential if we change the system a little bit to use the capabilities of this non-working population.

Recently I was talking to my relatives and my wife's relatives - there is lot of gossips, hate, frustration etc., I was thinking about the cause to it and I imagine it to be because of idle mind. If everyone works on something or other, there would not be this kind of thinking and gossipping.

I agree that - housewives have lot to do, including taking care of children, house hold works etc., There are positive thinking housewives. But I am talking now only about the other side of the crowd. So, this is not a complaint about everyone.

Anyway, if everyone makes sure there is work or something to do at any point of time - then it will help Chennai's productivity and in fact family's productivity very well.

Idle mind is devil's workshop - if No work at Chennai

Idle mind is devil's workshop - if No work at Chennai

Chennai is in general a sit-back-relax city. Working population is not even 50% to the non-working stay-at-home population.

Housewives, students, school-drop-out girls, girls stopped from school to stay at home, retired community, not-going-to work population etc., are non-productive. As they are at home and they don't have solid work, there is a tendency of cribbing, idling, gossiping etc.,

There is a huge potential if we change the system a little bit to use the capabilities of this non-working population.

Recently I was talking to my relatives and my wife's relatives - there is lot of gossips, hate, frustration etc., I was thinking about the cause to it and I imagine it to be because of idle mind. If everyone works on something or other, there would not be this kind of thinking and gossipping.

I agree that - housewives have lot to do, including taking care of children, house hold works etc., There are positive thinking housewives. But I am talking now only about the other side of the crowd. So, this is not a complaint about everyone.

Anyway, if everyone makes sure there is work or something to do at any point of time - then it will help Chennai's productivity and in fact family's productivity very well.